My Son, Josh

In honor of Mother’s Day, I have decided to write posts about what I have learned from each of my children, and the things I respect most about each of them. I started with Ashley, and then it was Hailey’s turn, today I am focusing on Josh. Josh is something else, and parenting him certainly takes us to a variety of extremes. We had a developmental specialist tell us that he would probably become an extraordinary man, if we survived raising him! The specialist told us this when he was 2 years old, and right she was. I’m certain he will be amazing, but not so sure we will survive. There are so many things about Josh that I respect. He is compassionate, empathetic, protective, and fearless. There have been so many times that he has stood up to much older kids to protect his sisters. He is the first to show those around him understanding and compassion. And he is so very forgiving to everyone around him. He is also very polite, grateful, and charming. This is probably why so many people enjoy him so much, even though his behavior can be so challenging at times. He is persistent, curious, and has more energy than any person should ever have. He is so smart and has an amazing memory. From raising Josh, I have learned that not everything is black and white or good and bad. I have also learned that sometimes you have to fight really hard for your kids, and sometimes you just have to back off and let them find their way. People aren’t always going to understand Josh. It is my job to surround him with the people that not only get him, but love him, challenges and all. Children are a gift of the Lord. Psalm 127:3 And let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart. Galatians 6:9 Should you not also have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had pity on you? Matthew 18:33 And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you. Ephesians 4:32 Like Created In His Image on Facebook originally posted May 2012